Friday, August 5, 2011
No more "breaks." This is it.
In light of all the "breaks" I have been taking recently, I finally realized that I am just not motivated to blog here anymore. Yoon's Blur feels like a pair of shoes that no longer fits quite right. Walking in them feels arduous and cumbersome.
I'll still be blogging occasionally over at Lost Daughters. And you might be able to find me hanging out at Wordpress in a different pair of shoes. But I'm done here.
I will keep Yoon's Blur up, so if you happen to be stumbling upon this blog for the first time, please feel free to dive in and see what you can dig up. But no new content will be added.
I have appreciated all the readers, your commentary and insights, even when we have not agreed.
I am certainly not the same person I was when I first started blogging here. And although this is my final blog post here, for better or for worse, I will never be done in my journey as an adoptee.
Thank you everyone for reading. I wish you and your families all the best.
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Because yes, “the desire of a woman wanting to be a parent overrides the validity of a woman who can’t support her child.” Because everyone is selfish in adoption, and no one does anything solely for charity (much like the real world). I’m not saying their selfishness is wrong – I’m saying it’s seen as more valid than those who do not get what they want. If people want to adopt, unless they don’t pass the requirements their desire for adopting won’t be any less. They will still adopt, and it will be seen as more valid than those who are left behind, those families of origin who want their families.
That’s the point. There is no balance. There is no change. All the cycle does is continue.
That’s why I’m starting to think adoptive parent allies wouldn’t work.
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
For any last minute takers, Dr. John Raible, an adult adoptee and adoptive parent, is doing a webinar, "Adoptees as parents," hosted by the group, Adoptees Have Answers. Here's his own description of the webinar that will take place tomorrow:
I promise you, this presentation will be thought-provoking, if not controversial. I will share my latest thinking about the sometimes tense relations between adoptees and parents, and the advantages of being a parent AS an adoptee. I’ll also be discussing strategies for how parents can take on ally behaviors from a social justice perspective. And I’ll address how we adoptees need allies, and why they are so hard to find. Together we will explore: Can parents really be allies to their adopted children? What is an ally anyway?
Sounds like fun, huh? So if you haven’t already registered, now is the time! Click here.
Honestly, there are times I just want to choke and give up.
It's all so stinkin' complicated, and my brain and heart just feel like they're going to explode when I read articles like the one above.
Monday, July 11, 2011
Thursday, July 7, 2011
"National Assembly passes law reform bill reflecting the voices of adoptees, birth parents and single moms"
To read what Jane Jeong Trenka, TRACK President; Tammy Ko Robinson, Professor, Hanyang University; Kim Stoker, ASK Representative wrote in response to the new adoption legislation in Korea, click here.